I feel like being nervous is a waste of time. If I spend so much effort in worrying about what might be – I literally miss out on what is here in the moment. I understand that there are situations that come out of nowhere that can knock me to my knees. I should realize that is probably the reason for the situation – to bring me to my knees. Nervous – worry- stress are all words that cause more harm than good.
However, to be completely transparent, the one thing that makes me nervous is the unknown. I like to be in control and know how everything will happen. This is unrealistic – I know that, but isn’t that the whole caveat with being nervous? I can’t see and know everything. That just isn’t going to happen. Faith and trust now must enter the scenario. If I’m going to be able to finish my journey with some sense of decorum – then I must trust that there is a higher power out there looking out for my best. I believe that having that kind of knowledge should help drown out the many voices of fear and just simply trust that God has my back and wants what is best for me. That sounds like comfort to me – I’m all for comfort! “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5-6 NIV)
I just want to encourage you to breathe in whatever situation you find yourself. God is in control and is waiting to help you – but you have to ask!
LaDonna Fridenmaker~Writer 